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Archive for February, 2012

Details are All

Posted by tldegray on February 28, 2012

For the chronically ill, details are all. To cope with chronic illness means to routinely scan minute bodily processes. Attention is vigilantly focused, sometimes hour by hour, to the specifics of circumstances and events that could be potential sources of worsening. There is the daily quest for control of the known provoking agents. Enervating decisions must be made about when to initiate or terminate an activity, when to move from baseline medication to second-level drugs, and when to seek professional help. And all this occurs in the context of active lives that are filled with the same pressures, threats, vagaries, and exultations that make of normal living such a ‘blooming, buzzing confusion’ [James] Is it any wonder that exhaustion is one of the common shared experiences of chronic illness?

–Arthur Kleinman, The Illness Narratives

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Classic victim blaming. As per usual.

Posted by tldegray on February 12, 2012

One can only be forgiven for the same transgressions so many times. Once, you're a victim. After that, you are simply a volunteer.

Victim blaming holds the victim responsible for what has happened to them. It releases the perpetrator from responsibility. It shows no compassion, no understanding of the effects of long-term abuse, no comprehension that one day it could be you.

Go ahead. Make yourself feel better. Tell yourself it could never happen to you because you would never be a volunteer. Make yourself feel safer by pretending the only people who get hurt are people who deserve to be hurt.

Live the lie, folks. Be a douche and snuggle up in your safety blanket. After all, what does it really matter if you continue to hurt people who’ve already been harmed? They’re volunteers, right? So they don’t matter.

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Great ideas for easy breakfasts.

Posted by tldegray on February 6, 2012

We all know how important it is to eat breakfast, but it’s hard enough to get everything going in the morning when you don’t have to wonder if you’ll be able to get out of bed. It’s all about planning ahead and making it easy, while still making healthy choices.

Read More & Get Recipes at Somebody Heal Me

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